My first experience as a leader was really all about wanting to be a “boss.” I simply wanted authority and the opportunity to tell others what to do. Needless to say, that didn’t go well nor did it last long. Over time, I learned to focus on building relationships and gaining influence with those I was responsible for, and that led to them welcoming my thoughts and allowing me to serve them. After taking a break from my supervisory roles, four years later, I find myself back “in charge” of others. Here are four things I’m pursuing this time around that may also work for you in your childcare program:

1.       Be Present- when engaging with teachers, give them your undivided attention. Dedicate time to spend in the classrooms, meet with them individually and in small teams. Hear their thoughts and ideas, and make an effort to see their perspective. Try not to dwell on the past or obsess over plans for the future; instead, focus on the here and now and what you can do in the moment to make progress for your program.

2.       Offer Optimism- You have to set the tone for positive energy. Be mindful of your thoughts and conversations when speaking with and about teachers. Reframe negative comments and provide positive remarks instead. As much as possible, think about what you can say “yes” to. Some of my leadership training has taught me all about learning to say “no,” but find ways to encourage and empower your team with small gestures that encourage and affirm their ideas.

3.       Provide Support- encourage your teachers when times get rough, and cheer them on when things go well. Solicit their ideas to challenging tasks and work with them to develop solutions. Consider mistakes teachable moments and use them as opportunities to provide training and guidance for improvement. Be a resource for your team; that doesn’t mean you have to be the “go-to” for everything, but that you can point them on the right path to seeking their own solutions.

4.       Implement a Strategy- develop systems that will set your team up for success. Revisit your mission and develop clear goals for working toward it this year. Train and orient your new staff and help them find their place in your program. Approach professional development with a wide-eye view for all staff and individually for each teacher. Complete self-assessments to identify your strengths and weaknesses and develop a plan for improvement that supports the success of the whole program.

I’m sure you’d agree that this is easier said or done. No worries, we can take some of the guess-work out of the implementation. Download this BOSS BINGO sheet for some ideas on how to take your leadership to the next level.